• A little Thought About Feeling ‘Used’…

    For a long time, I had a problem with “being used.” You know that situation where people come to you for reasons that benefit them alone. From “picking your brain” for ideas, to asking you to use your skills and sometimes providing your intellectual property. Your time, energy, sometimes emotional labour is spent and when they’ve gotten what they wanted, it’s like you don’t exist. I used to feel bad about this. I don’t anymore. You see, I’ve come to view life from a different perspective. Someone once said “people only come to a tree that has fruits” Nobody gives a rat about an empty individual. So when I get…