I am doing 20 things i want every girl to know and make room for. This is my life experiences
Your trauma is part of you, you will learn how to deal with it. Give it time and do it gently
Trust me I have been there, dimmed my light, exhausted my being the good girl. In doing so, i wasted time denied myself the right to be my own person.
Try as hard as it is but be your own woman
But the world mainly hates women who love themselves. Loving yourself as a woman is reclaiming your power over yourself. It is to honor yourself because you are worth it
If you can escape this, do it. If you cannot, hold on. One day, an opportunity will come and you will break free
Your body is your sanctuary. Love it, honor it, enjoy it
It’s okay to change your friends, partners, aspirations,…..it’s truly okay to totally change
Be a little girl as possible as you can. Just be
Do not live your youth projecting your own insecurities onto women around you, unlearn misogyny so you can be a good sister
The world will celebrate your aspirations until they call you too much for wanting more for yourself.
Do not betray yourself by dimming your light
Resist as you can
Remember it’s not your fault. It’s this ugly world
Take breaks from saving the world. Do it because you deserve to also be saved
I am glad you are here💙