• I Am Tired.

    This is not an inspirational post. it’s not meant to be. frankly speaking, i don’t even know what it’s supposed to be. I haven’t written anything here in a while and i miss that. I miss you reading and in a way, i miss me. i miss the me that writes. I haven’t been in the right head space for some time and I’ve tried to find a name or description for how I’m feeling and the one word i could come up with, is ‘tired’. I’m tired of the hustle and bustle of daily living. I’m tired of answering questions, smiling and laughing and shaking hands and having conversations…

  • Time To Participate In This Season’s #EasterRiceGiveAway!

    Acknowledging the overwhelming number of underprivileged people in our communities, EGB Charity Outreach is committed to giving 10kg bags of rice to indigent families in desperate need this Easter season. During this give away, 50 families will get one bag each. These bags of rice will be distributed to widows, single mothers and others in need. You can please support this drive by buying a 10kg bag of rice for N3500 for @ least One family Donate to —> 0070195322 Diamond Bank Account name: Experience God’s Blessing Foundation For more details follow @Inzaghi1 on twitter.   

  • Event: @JCI_Nigeria (FESTAC) March Business Meeting

    This Sunday (25th March),  I will be facilitating a training on using  social media for small business at the Junior Chamber International business meeting in Festac. JCI is a non-governmental organisation for persons within the age bracket (18-40) focused on impacting communities and individuals. JCI provides development opportunities that empowers young active citizens to create positive change. JCI exists in over 100 countries across the world. JCI Festac is one of the over 50 chapters across Nigeria. The venue is The Golden Tulip Hotel and training starts at 3pm.

  • Help @Chude Raise N10M to Build A Depression & Trauma Centre For Young People

    I am almost ashamed to say this now because I had no excuse. My parents were not rich, but they were not poor. They sent me to good schools. They had a marriage that was difficult sometimes, but they stayed together because of me; it was a good marriage, and they never projected pain or trauma unto me. My life has had no abuse of any sort (not even verbal abuse by my mother), and I have been loved and validated by my parents every day of my life. Yet even with all this reinforcement, when I left their protective arms and went into the world, it frightened me. There…

  • #GuestPost – Neglecting The Boy Endangers The Girl

    Before he was a rapist, woman beater, misogynist, patriarchy maniac, and the thing that keeps you awake at night, he was an innocent child. Born with no hate or disregard for women. There is no way he brought such evil from heaven. What happened? He was neglected and uneducated. Neglected by his parents, uncles, church, aunties and all the good institutions of the society responsible for nurturing him. They tell him to go find his way because he is a man. I never paid much or any attention to the international day of the girl child until last year. Women have had enough and were making a lot of justified noise on…

  • #PressForProgress – Live Your Truth. No Permission Needed.

      I didn’t grow up thinking i was female. Sounds rather odd doesn’t it? Let me explain myself better.  I was a creative child and i discovered it early enough. I knew i could sing, write, talk a mouthful and be the center of attention in any group and i did all those naturally without thinking for a second about being a girl while doing them. Then Church happened.  And life happened. I was told you’re a girl, don’t be so outspoken You’re a girl, you shouldn’t always be in front You’re a girl, don’t be so loud You’re a girl, you shouldn’t want to be the leader   Women…

  • @ShonowoHospital Announces Free Fibroid Removal Surgeries!

    In Nigeria, women who are in their child bearing ages stand higher risk of developing fibroids. Fibroids are the most frequently seen tumors of the female reproductive system. Also known as uterine myomas, leiomyomas, or fibromas, fibroids are firm, compact tumors that are made of smooth muscle cells and fibrous connective tissue that develop in the uterus. It is estimated that between 20 to 50 percent of women of reproductive age have fibroids, although not all are diagnosed. It has been estimated that 1 in 4 Nigerian women develop one or more fibroids in her lifetime.

  • Soul Detoxifying Worship

    Thinking aloud the other day, i said I needed some form of therapy.  I had been feeling stressed, dissatisfied, worried and angry. I felt like i lived in a pressure cooker and any minute, i would blow a lid at the slightest provocation. Last weekend was the last straw.  I had an expectation that ended in disappointment and i was so hurt. All previous emotions kicked in and i was so miserable. But then, the week started with Chude inviting me for a worship session for a small group of friends.  It was exactly what I needed. Just singing songs of worship, i dropped all my burdens and worries and…

  • Yinka Lawanson; Doing Music & Philanthropy In Prison

    Not everyone who does the Lord’s work stand behind a pulpit or has a religious title. For Yinka Lawanson, a microphone, a big voice and an open heart is just all he needs. For the last ten years, Yinka Lawanson, using the stage name ‘Lamboginny’,  has been a consistent hard worker in the Nigerian music industry, performing as a dance hall artiste, as well as a lead campaigner against drug abuse and an advocate for prison reforms and inmate rehabilitation.

  • Get The Perfect Underwear From PantAffairs!

    The struggle to get the perfect bra that fit, is a struggle most of us women go through. So when we find that one bra that is comfortable,  supports, covers, holds and it super sexy,  we tend to wear the hell out of it. That favorite bra can take the much needed break now.  PantAffairs is here! You can contact PantAffairs for affordable yet quality bras and panties. I purchased two today and i didn’t want to take them off.  They are perfect! PantAffairs stock all sizes.  Big cup,  small cup,  plus size,  you’ll get your fit. CONTACT DETAILS Whatsapp  : 08153652956 Instagram : @pantaffairs Gmail : pantaffairs@gmail.com No calls…

  • Sunmbo Adeoye Presents: Inspiring Change Conference 5th Edition

    Women entrepreneurs, corporate and business executives,  and aspiring Boss Babes!  The Inspiring Change Conference is back! Queens, this is NOT a conference you can afford to miss. The inspiring change conference is designed to not Just motivate you to maximize your potential and fulfill your dreams, it is also designed to provide practical information and access to the tools and the mentorship you need to step out and build your future. Hosted by Sunmbo Adeoye of ESOB events, Women speakers from all sectors of the economy will be speaking and be available to answer your questions. The main Guest speaker for the day is Pastor Nike Adeyemi Of Daystar christian…

  • The Church Needs To Get Comfortable With Women’s Bodies

    If you grew up a church girl like i did, chances are you were taught (directly or indirectly) to be ashamed of your body and your sexuality. You were told women’s bodies and clothing can cause men to “stumble” with lust. You grew up believing it was your responsibility to keep men pure and the way to do this, is to keep your body hidden and unnoticeable as much as possible. If you were a teenager who filled up too fast, you were viewed with suspicion and consistently preached at about ‘fornication’. If you were an adult female with noticeable curves, your choice of clothing, will be constantly criticised and…

  • Finding Love, Staying Loved & Giving Love

    I have always been infatuated with the idea of love. The grand romantic gestures described in novels and watched in Hollywood romantic comedies and my own overactive imagination fuelled my idealism. When i was growing up, i was always falling in and out of love even when i had no idea what it meant to be loved or to love someone else. My encounter with Jesus taught me to view life differently but it is really my relationship with him that has changed my knowledge of what love really is. Whether it is romantic or otherwise. Relationship with Jesus showed me that i am already loved and taught me to…

  • Get Your Valentine’s Day Cakes at #ChocolatRoyal!

    Don’t you dare say i never do anything for you! 😀 Chocolat Royal has this amazing valentine offer.  Order this gorgeous cake and get a free chocolate heart to go with it! Call 012714158  to place your order now. Chocolat Royal is at 267 etim inyang crescent, Victoria Island Lagos.

  • He Chose Me! Can You Believe That?!

    “You were in a faraway country, but I reached out to you. I called you from that faraway place. I said, ‘You are my servant.’ I chose you, and I have not rejected you. ” – Isaiah 41:9 ERV This verse is the story of my life. For so long i didn’t know though and even now, i sometimes need reminders. These days, i find myself marvelling at how God could take an obscure small town girl raised by an average single parent, insecure, hurt, broken and abused, put all that together and create something and someone beautiful and extraordinary.